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20u - Forgive Yourself

I’m far from perfect in my pursuits, but I’m learning a simple, powerful lesson in forgiveness that empowers me to look beyond my stumbles and towards success. I thought I’d share it with you. Forgive yourself for not being the richest, the thinnest, the tallest, the one with the best hair. Forgive yourself for not being […]

20u Say No

Over the years, I’ve learned that if something inside of me is not resounding with a passionate urge– if I feel anything less than ecstatic or amazed –I shouldn’t pursue it. Instead, I simply say, “No.” If you put this into practice, you make room in your life to really throw yourself completely into the […]

20u Core Values

If you’re anything like me, at times when you don’t know the answer you’ve made decisions that have authored your own punishment. It’s not fun. So today we are going to discuss personal values. What are Personal Values? Personal values are the general expression of what is most important to you. They usually run on ‘auto-pilot’ […]

20u Manage Uncertainty

The uncertainty you have about your future… it will never go away. Managing the unknowns in an ever changing world is a lifelong process. So today I want to share with you two lessons I’ve learned the hard way about managing uncertainty. 1. Replace expectations with plans. It’s easy to set ourselves up for disappointment. […]

20u Focus Why

It’s common for myself and others to dwell on the feeling of not knowing what to do with life. In fact, I started a small freelance business, struggled through college, and resolved many personal toils regarding purpose and direction all with focusing on what. The inherent problem with this way of thinking is that it dodges the heart of […]

20u Calling

When it comes to fulfillment in relation to our work, many agree that there are three approaches most people take. They view their work as a job, a career or a calling. You work a job for the money. You watch the clock and dream about the weekend. You carefully prepare for a career with high goals […]

20u Edges

Do you remember learning how to complete a puzzle? As a child I discovered it helped to do the edges first. This helped for a number of reasons and it did wonders to watch as progress gained momentum …and to be honest, if I had begun by first attempting to make sense of the middle pieces, […]